7 Tips to Ditch High Conflict at the Holidays

For blended families, the holiday season is longer, more complicated, and more stressful than for traditional families. (Yayyyyy 🙄) We try to cram at least as many Super Fun Activities…

The high road to nowhere

HCBM has started hugging us hello and goodbye, which I hate. Oh, so NOW we’re friends? After over a decade of high-conflict custody, poisoning SD against us, and generally making…

Stepparents: Are you overstepping?

As stepparents, one of the things we’re most often accused of is overstepping. A lot of time, this complaint is totally unfounded. But sometimes, if we’re honest, maybe there’s a…