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So much of the drama that comes with high conflict co-parenting can be avoided by including the right points in your parenting plan!
Vaguely worded custody orders set you up for failure. Especially when they depend on the cooperation and goodwill of a high-conflict ex. 😱
So what should be included in your parenting plan? As much detail as humanly possible.
THE $27 SUPER-SPECIFIC, LOOPHOLE-CLOSING, ABSURDITY-REDUCING HIGH CONFLICT PARENTING PLAN CHECKLIST is designed to help limit needless nonsense from the high-conflict ex's willful misinterpretation of your custody orders.
“We aren’t in court yet, but this list helped tremendously. As you know, in a high conflict situation, it feels impossible to know what boxes need to be checked and what you might be missing when going down the already-tedious route of a custody battle. Having this already written out in list form really helped us put together the new parenting plan we’ll be presenting to the court. So helpful!!!”
Hi, we’re Dan & Maarit, the faces behind Blended Family Frappé!
I PRACTICALLY MEMORIZED MY HUSBAND’S CUSTODY ORDERS.
I had to, because he and his ex fought about them at least once a week. 🤦🏻♀️
Eventually, my husband Dan and I put our heads together to hash out what we wished had been included in his original parenting plan with his high-conflict ex, what we definitely did not want included going forward, and where some much-needed clarification would be a friggin’ godsend.
Updating Dan’s custody orders lowered our stress levels, gave our whole stepfamily room to breathe, and — most importantly — gave him the confidence he needed to maintain legally-enforceable boundaries with his toxic ex.
Are we lawyers? Nope! (And you should definitely have legal counsel advise you on all legal matters!) But after a decade-plus of high-conflict co-parenting, we sure learned a bunch of tricks on how to protect ourselves.
And we’re happy to share them with you!
If you're sick of feeling like you get no vote, have no rights, and are allowed zero boundaries with the ex, it's way past time to whip your parenting plan into shape.
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“I just have to tell you, that list you made was perfect. My lawyer told me that opposing counsel was like ‘Well your client gets an A+ in drafting.’”
THIS $27 CHECKLIST COVERS THE PRIMARY PAIN POINTS THAT CAUSE THE MOST CONFLICT WHEN CO-PARENTING WITH A TOXIC EX:
✓ GENERAL TOPICS like guidelines around consequences for custody order violations… and no badmouthing please!
✓ COMMUNICATION — What constitutes "reasonable access", anyway? Get that mysterious legalese language outta there!!
✓ CUSTODY & VISITATION — No more arguing who's in charge of transportation. FINALLY.
✓ EDUCATION and ✓ MEDICAL — Create crystal clear clauses that clearly lay out who can make which decisions.
✓ FINANCES — Stop bickering over what counts as “reimbursable.”
✓ TRAVEL/MOVING — Lay out EXACTLY what happens if one parent moves out of the school district.
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