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    We all have very set notions of what our lives are supposed to look like. What careers we’re supposed to have, the types of houses we’re supposed to live in,…

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    Is there any holiday as emotionally loaded as Mother’s Day? Not just for stepmoms (I mean, yeah, definitely for stepmoms), but also regular moms, kids of regular moms, kids of…

  • Make 2 Cakes Anyway

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    As stepparents, one of the things we’re most often accused of is overstepping. A lot of time, this complaint is totally unfounded. But sometimes, if we’re honest, maybe there’s a…