What if I don’t like my stepkids?
Don’t like your stepkid? You’re not alone! Here’s 5 legit reasons why that can happen and what to do when you don’t love your stepkid.
Should stepparents discipline their stepkids?
Are stepparents seriously not allowed to discipline our stepkids? Even though we share a house with them??
Can you disengage from only one stepkid?
Can you disengage from only one stepkid? Or disengage from your stepkid when you’ve got other kids at home? Sure can! Let me explain…
(Step) Love actually
Love in a stepfamily is different… so maybe it’s okay for stepparents to fake love till we feel love.
5 transition day tips for stepparents
Your stepkids’ transition day is hard on everyone — including stepparents! These tips can help lower those stress levels down to a less insane decibel.
4 ways to support your partner after disengaging
What's a stepparent's role look like after disengaging? Here are 4 non-parenting ways you can still be a supportive stepparent.
What's a stepparent's role, anyway?
It took me years to realize that what I wanted my role to be as a stepmom and what actually worked for me, my stepdaughter, and our family were two very different things.
3 ways to tell your partner you're disengaging
Need to take a step back from stepparenting? Here's 3 ways you can explain disengaging to your partner in a positive way.
Why does my stepkid hate me? 6 reasons why stepkids reject stepparents
Worried your stepkids hate you? Weirdly enough, just because your stepkids reject you doesn't mean they actually hate you!
Stepparenting a stepkid with childhood trauma
How should you approach stepparenting when your stepkid comes from childhood abuse or trauma?
Even when stepparenting is hard, you gotta make time for fun
Don’t lose yourself so much in the stepparenting role that you forget to have fun! Walking on eggshells is never the best way to bond with your stepkid.
Let's stop acting like "stepparent" is a dirty word
Do we really need to call ourself "bonus moms" instead of "stepmoms"? Let’s stop apologizing for the very valid role we play in our stepfamily and own the stepparenting title with pride.
You don’t have to love your stepkid to be a good stepparent
As much as we assume that every good stepparent unconditionally loves their stepkids from day one, that's NOT the typical experience. Love is a bonus, not a requirement.
Stepparents, are you overstepping?
Hey stepparents, worried you're overstepping? Unless you've recently hired a huntsman to bring your stepkid's heart to you on a silver platter, you're probably good.