What if I don’t like my stepkids?
Don’t like your stepkid? You’re not alone! Here’s 5 legit reasons why that can happen and what to do when you don’t love your stepkid.
6 things stepparents wish their partners knew
Learn 6 truths about stepparenting and blended family life we wish our partners understood.
Should stepparents discipline their stepkids?
Are stepparents seriously not allowed to discipline our stepkids? Even though we share a house with them??
Can you disengage from only one stepkid?
Can you disengage from only one stepkid? Or disengage from your stepkid when you’ve got other kids at home? Sure can! Let me explain…
How to keep your cool during your partner's custody battle
How can you support your partner through their high conflict custody battle without losing yourself in the process?
Why your relationship (NOT the kids) should come first in a stepfamily
Should your partner or the kids come first in a blended family? Here's why your relationship needs to take top priority.
4 ways stepparents can protect their own mental health in high conflict
If your partner’s not setting great boundaries with their high-conflict ex, here are 4 ways stepparents can protect themselves and their own mental health.
How to prove parental alienation: 4 documentation tools
Is it hard to prove parental alienation? Not if you combine the right strategies with the right documentation tools! This guide will help get you started.
7 myths about parental alienation you shouldn't believe
So much advice about parental alienation is naive, worthless, or just plain wrong. Don't believe these common myths!
When should you walk away from your blended family?
Stay and keep fighting to blend your family, or call it quits and leave? This is the question I asked myself almost daily for a solid decade.
(Step) Love actually
Love in a stepfamily is different… so maybe it’s okay for stepparents to fake love till we feel love.
Spying, lying, & stepkids: how to deal when your stepkid acts like a double agent
How do you deal with a spying or lying stepkid when their actions cross the line from "kids will be kids" into toxic behavior?
5 transition day tips for stepparents
Your stepkids’ transition day is hard on everyone — including stepparents! These tips can help lower those stress levels down to a less insane decibel.
4 ways to support your partner after disengaging
What's a stepparent's role look like after disengaging? Here are 4 non-parenting ways you can still be a supportive stepparent.
When your stepkid reminds you too much of the ex
Is it normal to not like your stepkids when they act too much like your partner’s high-conflict co-parent? Short answer: yes. Longer answer: read this blog.
What's a stepparent's role, anyway?
It took me years to realize that what I wanted my role to be as a stepmom and what actually worked for me, my stepdaughter, and our family were two very different things.
The life-changing magic of parallel parenting
If trying to co-parent with your high-conflict ex doesn’t spark joy for you, maybe it’s time to switch to parallel parenting. Here’s some tips on how to get started.
3 ways to tell your partner you're disengaging
Need to take a step back from stepparenting? Here's 3 ways you can explain disengaging to your partner in a positive way.